Life's Good

Everyday if u convince yourself life's good and understand that problems are needed to grow, you'll gain a good advantage over the majority self pity-ers in the world. There are already enough problems in that we do not know(like moths in the closet), why create problems? Have a nonchalant attitude. Take it easy. I would like to tell most of my friends that. While nearly everyone has problems with their relationships ( platonic, romantic, gay or lesbian kinds for eg), i think making them public is the last thing anyone should do. I think both parties deserve respect and shouldn't be made fun of. Just confront the problem man. Though sometimes, making it a joke makes it easier to cope with, think of the other, how he or she will feel.

On a lighter piece of paper, learn to equate your pleasures and pain. make problems positive for yourself. Think it as a test of endurance and see how u can cope or solve it without risking too much of your emotions, or integrity.

I know, boring.

Problems bores me. Really. I like the nonchalant attitude i have. It helps me solve things more efficiently cause i hate trouble. Don't be mistaken that i can't be bothered. Things that need to be done have to be done. Things that doesnt bother me shouldn't bother me. When approached help with your best. When u want to help, think whether it is to help or just because u want to be appreciated. Think of your intentions before u do anything. Don't be mistaken by your actions, as u make manipulate yourself unknowingly. In other words, don't be dumb.